Results for “overthinking”

I don’t think I even notice when I start overthinking anymore. It just happens automatically. A simple message can turn into 10 different interpretations in my head. If someone replies late, I start wondering if I said something wrong. If s...

It started with something that didn’t feel worth noticing. A light in the opposite apartment that stayed on longer than usual. Curtains that were always slightly open at the same angle. A phone that seemed to be pointed in the same directio...

During the day, I’m honestly fine. I go to work, talk to people, laugh, reply to messages… everything looks normal. No one would guess anything is wrong. But nights are a different story. As soon as I’m alone and things get quiet, my brain...

I don’t even know how to explain this without sounding ungrateful. My boyfriend is genuinely a great person. He’s kind, respectful, never shouts, never cheats, always shows up for everyone. But not really for me. Like he’ll go out of his wa...

I don’t think I’m being real online anymore. Like… my posts look good, my stories are fine, people probably think I’m doing okay. But it’s not actually me. I only post the “safe” version of my life. The version that looks normal, happy, put...

I feel weird even writing this. My partner and my best friend get along really well… which I thought was a good thing at first. But lately, I’ve started noticing small things. They text sometimes. Not constantly, but enough. They have insid...

This has been bothering me for a while now. Whenever we go out as a group, the bill just gets split equally between everyone. The thing is, I usually order way less than others. Sometimes it’s just a drink or something small, while others a...

I’ve started noticing a pattern with one of my friends. They rarely check in randomly. But whenever they need something — advice, help, support — suddenly I get a call or message. At first I didn’t think much of it. But now it’s become pred...

I think I learned something the hard way, but I honestly don’t know what to do with it now. I had a really close friend — someone I trusted completely. The kind of person you don’t think twice before sharing things with. Looking back, I can...

I think I’m everyone’s “go-to person”… and I’m honestly starting to hate it. Like I’m the one people call when they’re upset, confused, need advice, or just want someone to listen. And I do show up. I reply, I stay on call, I try to help. B...

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and it’s honestly starting to bother me. I remember when people first started talking about crypto — Bitcoin, Ethereum, all of it. It wasn’t like I didn’t know. I definitely heard about it back the...

I’ve been studying almost every day, putting in hours, trying to stay consistent… and still, I feel like I’m not doing enough. No matter how much I cover, there’s always something pending. Someone else always seems ahead. I’ll finish one ch...

It’s one of those nights where everything is quiet… but my mind isn’t. Nothing actually went wrong today. No fight, no bad news, nothing major. If someone asked me how my day was, I’d probably just say “normal.” But for some reason, I don’t...

Today wasn’t anything big. No major plans, no exciting events, nothing worth posting about normally. But it felt… good. I woke up without rushing, had a normal conversation without overthinking what I said, got through the day without that...

I don’t even know how to explain this properly, but something has been happening in my company lately that just doesn’t sit right with me. And the worst part is… everyone sees it, but no one says anything. We have a few senior people who cl...

Every night I tell myself I’ll just lie down and rest. No phone. No overthinking. Just sleep. But the moment everything gets quiet, my brain gets loud. It starts small. Random thoughts. Then suddenly I’m replaying conversations from years a...

I always thought healing would feel dramatic. Like one big breakthrough. One big realisation. One moment where everything suddenly makes sense. But it’s not like that. It’s slow. It’s repetitive. It’s honestly kind of boring. It’s choosing...

It started off normal. Just occasional work-related messages after hours. I didn’t think much of it because sometimes things come up. But lately, the messages aren’t always about work. Random check-ins, “what are you doing?”, “still awake?”...

There was no argument. No moment where things exploded or broke in a way that could be pointed at and understood. Just a slow change that happened quietly over time. Replies became less frequent. Conversations felt shorter. Effort stopped m...

This is going to sound made up, but I noticed something weird with my old photos. There’s a picture from a birthday a few years ago that I clearly remember. There were five of us in it. I opened it recently, and now there are only four. I t...

BRO I PLAYED SO GOOD 100% ACCURACY. this has happend countless times and I’m fed up with chess.com counting them as lossses and the stupidity of the Wi-Fi. I’m really pissed about that I need to lock in and cook in chess so byeeeee.

I know how this sounds. I know how people will react. That’s exactly why I’ve never said it… not to anyone. I love my child. I really do. But somewhere along the way… I lost myself completely. My days are no longer mine. My thoughts aren’t...

I’ve always believed in being patient with people. Giving them time, understanding their situation, not reacting immediately. But recently I’ve been questioning that. How long is too long? When does understanding someone turn into ignoring...

They read my message. That’s it. No reply. But in my head, I replayed everything I said, wondering if I sounded weird or annoying. The logical part of me knows it’s nothing. But the anxious part? It’s already convinced I messed something up...

It’s never the big things that get me. I can handle serious situations. Deadlines. Pressure. Even conflict. But a simple okay text can destroy me. Suddenly I’m analysing tone that doesn’t exist. Reading meaning into punctuation. Replaying m...

Something big happened recently. I got the promotion I’d been working towards for a long time. The kind of thing you imagine celebrating, calling people about, feeling proud of. And I did all that… but only on the outside. Inside, it felt v...