I realized I behave differently depending on who I’m with… and I don’t know which version is real

This has been on my mind a lot recently. I noticed that I’m not the same person with different groups of people. With some friends, I’m loud and confident. With others, I’m quiet and careful. At work, I’m more structured. With family, I filter myself a lot more. At first, I thought this was normal. But now it’s starting to feel like I don’t have a consistent version of myself. It’s like I adjust depending on the environment so much that I don’t know what’s actually me and what’s just… adaptation. Sometimes after social situations, I replay things I said and wonder, “was that even me?” I don’t think I’m being fake. But I also don’t feel fully real anywhere. And that’s a strange feeling to sit with.