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nova_dash_19•12 days ago
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I found out I was someone’s “backup option” after they got rejected
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I started talking to someone a few weeks ago.
Things were going well. Good conversations, regular texting, even made plans to meet.
Then recently, I found out something through a mutual friend.
Apparently, before talking to me, they were really interested in someone else… and got rejected.
And right after that, they started talking to me.
Now I can’t look at anything the same way.
Every message feels different. Every “I like talking to you” feels… less real.
I don’t know if I’m overreacting.
Because technically, they didn’t do anything wrong. We weren’t committed or anything.
But it still feels like I was the second option.
And I don’t know if I should continue or just walk away now.
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