I am slowly falling out of love and I dont know if that makes me a bad person
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Be patient with yourself. Healing is not linear and you are not failing just because some days feel like a step backwards.
I have lived a version of this. The guilt is loud now, but the self-respect outlasts it. Give it a little time and you will see.
You are not behind and you are not broken. The fact that you can name this so clearly tells me you are more self-aware than you give yourself credit for.
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